About to go on a date with a fantastic woman you met through a Shadchan or a friend, and now you want to make sure you look your best? First impressions matter, and how you dress says a lot about how seriously you take the date. Here are some practical tips for the Orthodox Jewish man looking to step up his style game.
1. Fit Is Everything
Clothes that fit well look better than expensive clothes that do not. Make sure your shirt is not too baggy, your pants are the right length, and your jacket sits properly on your shoulders.
2. Invest in a Good Pair of Shoes
Women notice shoes. A clean, polished pair of dress shoes or nice leather loafers will elevate any outfit. Keep them clean and in good repair.
3. Iron Your Shirt
This seems obvious, but you would be surprised. A wrinkled shirt signals that you did not put much effort into preparing for the date. Take five minutes to iron or steam your shirt.
4. Keep It Simple
You do not need to be a fashion expert. A well-fitting button-down shirt, nice pants, and clean shoes will get you far. Avoid loud patterns or too many accessories.
5. Groom Yourself
A neat appearance goes beyond clothes. Trim your beard or shave, make sure your hair is tidy, and apply a subtle amount of cologne (emphasis on subtle).
6. Dress Appropriately for the Venue
A hotel lobby date calls for something different than a casual coffee meetup. Know where you are going and dress accordingly.
7. Be Yourself
The goal is to look like the best version of yourself, not to pretend to be someone you are not. Wear something you feel comfortable and confident in.
Dressing well is a form of respect, both for yourself and for the person sitting across from you. It shows you care about making a good impression.
